I recently entered into a discussion on Facebook with a white man who commented on a public post I made in which I shared an article about Ohio residents greeting Obama by waving confederate flags. I commented on the article with only two words: heart broken.
The man responded by saying he was “tired” of the media exacerbating racial tension by pitting blacks and whites against one another. Does he count as “the media” since he posted publicly on Facebook? Aren’t we, the people, the media, now? Did “the media” invent police brutality and the segregation in communities and schools that persists today?
He cites his experience as a missionary in Southern black communities as evidence of his understanding. He says he didn’t experience racism in the projects. Does he think that associating with black people made him temporarily black? Does he think something doesn’t exist because he has not personally experienced it?
He claims that he is not a bigot, and I might believe him, yet his denial of the discrimination faced by people of color indirectly supports it.
I do not know this man at all, but I engaged with him because I felt it important to fight against the contagions in his message. I hoped that by speaking up, I could give others the tools to speak up. I let myself become intoxicated by the freedom of speech. I knew I couldn’t change his mind, but I felt empowered by disagreeing with him, openly, unapologetically.
I disagreed when he suggested that waving the confederate flag in the face of our black president was not a racist act but a political act. Then why not hold up signs with political statements as is the norm for such protests? I disagreed when he suggested the confederate flag to be a symbol of unity. The unity of whom? Certainly it was not for the unity of the human race. I disagreed when he said the treatment of blacks is not as bad as the media wants it to be. What if it’s worse?
America has a long hard history with race. This country is not going to heal beneath the pretense of equality. We must demand the real thing. We can start by bearing witness to people of color. The media has largely provided us this opportunity.
The first step to change is awareness, which is why this man and so many others perpetuate racism. By pretending it’s not there.
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